Estate planning 101A
More often than not, our parents’ estates and financial affairs are not in order. Last week we explored how the kids’ involvement in the family’s estate planning can be beneficial.
Of course, on the death of a parent, the lack of a current will and inadequate life and medical insurance comes as a surprise – after it’s too late to do anything about it.
Resist the temptation to assume “everything is handled,” and explore with your parents or family the basics of what needs to be done to protect the family from financial disaster, severe tax consequences, nursing home costs, ineligibility for Medicaid and other governmental assistance, and family disagreements after a parent’s death.
There’s no magic list of what you need to know to avoid surprises in your parents’ financial future, but here are a few things to consider discussing with Mom and Dad:
— An easy transition is to ask your parents whether they have a signed Power of Attorney for Health Care or Health-Care Directive. Either of these documents ensures that proper health care decisions are made in case they become incapacitated (call or e-mail your address to porter@porter simon.com for the forms).
— Is there a will or trust? Is it current? Has anyone died since the last will, or has there been a divorce or have properties been sold? Still want the same executor? Have your parents’ assets appreciated such that a trust might be beneficial? Remember it doesn’t do any good to lament after the fact how much of the estate went to the government. At the very least, encourage your parents to meet with their estate-planning lawyer.
— If your parents (or you!) don’t have a will, call a lawyer today (not tomorrow), or if you have minimal assets consider doing it yourself by checking out http://www.nolo.com or go to an office supply store. Don’t just think about it.
— Where are your parents’ estate-planning documents kept? Who has the key to the safe deposit box? Where’s the original will or trust?
— What types of life and medical insurance do your parents have? Does it cover long-term care? Nursing home coverage? In-home coverage? What are the limits? Are the premiums current and are your parents 100 percent mentally and financially capable of continuing the payments?
— What assets do your parents have, including cash, residence, investment properties, investments, IRAs, Social Security, banking and savings accounts, and stocks and bonds? Who is on title to the real estate? Have you taken advantage of the California law that allows marital properties to be held as community property with right of survivorship, which can avoid probate and save taxes? Most of you haven’t, and it’s a very simple process. (Call or e-mail and we will send you a Law Review on what needs to be done.)
— Is there a complete list of business, financial and family records, with addresses, account executives, home care providers, accountants, estate planning lawyer, deeds, bank account numbers, stocks, promissory notes, insurance policies, Veteran’s benefits, retirement plans, health records, and a home inventory? Call for an asset list form.
— Are the beneficiaries on life insurance policies and 401(K) plans up to date? You will be surprised how many ex-spouses remain on policies.
— Are your parents still driving, and has anyone evaluated their driving skills? An unfortunate, uninsured accident is a sure way to lose everything.
— Do your parents have enough income for their support or will assets have to be sold or can steps be taken today to qualify for Medicaid (or Medical, as we call it here in California)? I can’t tell you how important that is. Real estate transfers are perfectly legal but must be done in advance to qualify.
— Have you or your parents considered charitable trusts and other philanthropic plans that allow you to give to your favorite charity rather than the government – and still provide for the kids?
It’s a lot easier to talk to parents about grandchildren then it is to delve into financial planning, but maybe they will surprise you. It can be reassuring for the entire family. At least make sure the basics are covered.
By the way, have you taken care of YOUR estate planning basics? If you don’t have a will, you deserve the consequences. How would you feel if your assets went to your ex-spouse or completely contrary to your wishes? Next week we will explore some of the steps that can be taken to protect the family’s assets.
Jim Porter is an attorney with Porter-Simon, with offices in Truckee and Reno. He is a mediator and was the governor’s appointee to the Bipartisan McPherson Commission and the California Fair Political Practices Commission. He may be reached at email@example.com or at the firm’s Web site http://www.portersimon.com.
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